What Truely Makes a Winner!

While reading some recently online journals, I stumbled across the follow and about "winner" vs. "loser" and I wanted to share. Enjoy :)

"The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner is always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you;
The Loser says;" That is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says," I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault."

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
Loser have schemes.

Winners say," I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.


Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you
would, not want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen."

Unknown Author.

~Live Love Laugh~

Nekeela DeHaarte, M.S.

I recently watched the Movie, “The Ultimate Gift” – the message of the movie is about  "life how you live it… not how you spend it." From my prospective “The Ultimate Gift” was an amazing movie - thoroughly enjoyable while teaching some of life's Greatest Lessons! To live a life of abundance, joy, and happiness you truly have to understand the journey of life and the gifts enclosed within that journey. The movie teaches one how to truly enjoy the gifts of life. There were 11 gifts illustrated with great lessons in movie…hence why it’s called the “Ultimate Gift.”

If you’re wondering about your future goals (career, family, relationship or purpose in life) and questioning the how to live your best life, I strongly recommend you watch this movie. You have 24 hours in your day, 168 hours in your week, 8,736 hours in your year. Therefore, you definitely owe it to yourself to watch an hour long movie that’s guaranteed to change your life forever, like it has changed mine. Trust me, I’ll never lead you wrong. So I shall share... :-)

These were the 11 lessons I walk into my success and beautiful future with:

1. The Gift of Work Ethics: The importance of being a discipline employee.

2. The Gift of Money: To appreciate money you sometimes have to lose everything.

3. The Gift of True Friend(s): A true never intentionally hurt you, mistreat you, use you, and/or forsake when you need them the most.

4. The Gift of Learning: The importance of knowledge, wisdom, and understanding are keys to the treasure box of life.

5. The Gift of Problem(s): To overcome problem(s) is to prepare for victory. Therefore to be victorious you have to be willing and able to face problems.

6. The Gift of Laughter: Finding laughter in everyday you wake up alive.

7. The Gift of Dream: When you establish dream(s), you’ve found life’s meaning. When you stop dreaming, you’ve stop living. Be free to dream and follow it.

8. The Gift of Giving: It’s in the giving you shall receive what you want out of life.

9. The Gift of Gratitude: Always be thankful for what you have. Surprise many with your gratitude.

10. The Gift of a Day: Live in the present and treat each day as the perfect day, because you’ll never see that day again.

11. The Gift of Love: Love the people who’ve always supported, love your life, love the ones who love you, love person who has helped you, love your perfect day, and most of all love and appreciate yourself.

Looks like a lot but if you make these lessons part of your day to day life… I promise you, your life will take a journey to an amazing place you’ll never imagined possible.   ~live love laugh~

Nekeela DeHaarte, MS

CEO & President